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Where’s the repeat button?!!! Arcade fire track on… flashback to holding hands jumping around in a circle…  

That music was unreal; I’ve never seen artists play with such passion. I couldn’t ask for a better weekend in SF. Great music, great people, good food, blue skies, glassy waves and lots of laughter. The biggest thanks goes out to my brother Sam who introduced us to the Bridge School and motivated everyone to make the trek, AND who most importantly won’t let us leave him out of the action, not even for dinner!

The benefactor of Neil Young’s annual benefit concertThe Bridge School, helps physically challenged children overcome their impairments via the use of technology. The school organizes annual retreats for disabled adults to gather with peers, share stories and learn from one another. Sam who has cerebral palsy has been fortunate to attend these, many of which have been on the UC Berkeley campus where I’ve been able to join for evening activities.  They take over the dorms with wheelchairs, aides, music and all sorts of communication devices that help them connect with one another. The experience has not only been empowering but also inspiring to see what technology has provided for each of these individuals.

From my own experience, it’s been amazing to watch Sam grow and articulate his needs though use of a communication device. With a head switch he can scan through a computer to build sentences and it then speaks for him. Although it takes time and can be frustrating, it has opened doors that may not have been possible before. This year Sam opted to attend the Bridge School Concert instead of the summer program, since the trek down from Oregon was really not feasible for both. Sam who both loves live music and San Francisco, has been wanting to go to the concert ever since he started attending the Bridge School camps over 5 years ago. He persisted and the entourage followed.

The lineup included the likes of Dave Mathews, Beck, Carlos Santana, Eddie Vedder, Mumford and Sons, Arcade Fire, Nora Jones, and of course Neil Young. It was pandemonium trying to gather tickets, but between the phone, computer and a few friends we gathered 30 people to join us in the festivities. Friends and family drove and flew down from Portland, Tahoe, Santa Cruz and all over the city to join the cause. We kicked off the weekend with a big Italian style dinner at Pizzeria Delfina, where our good friend and GM Nick Arnerich seated us on the street for a gorgeous evening, where as my dad put it “Naples met NEP (Northeast Portland), we had a meal not to be forgotten!”

I found the biggest available wheelchair accessible bus to shuttle us down to Mountain View on Saturday. It only seated 20 and we squeezed in an extra, so next year we’ll really have to find something bigger…a school bus? Needless to say our rowdy crew made it safely to the concert to enjoy over seven hours of unbelievable music.

The artists played with heart and soul, Neil Young would stroll on and off the stage joining in with the artists and even surprising Beck with backing vocals midway through his band’s rendition of “pocahontas.” It was like a jam fest that thousands of people stumbled on and I felt fortunate to witness. I had seen Arcade Fire headline at Outside Lands only a few months earlier, but the Canadian Indie rock collective showed it could conjure just as much power even when stripped of the usual sonic frills, rollicking through twangy versions of “The Suburbs,” “Rebellion (Lies)” and Young’s “Helpless” with the man himself. Our group was literally holding hands and jumping around in circles. If it helps explain the greatness of this event, singer-guitarist Win Butler said  ”I can honestly say, I don’t think a lot of us would be in a band if it wasn’t for Neil Young.”

To top off the night, my mother who bought a few raffle tickets’ in hopes of grasping an iPad was shocked to win the grand prize; the 25th Anniversary Bridge School Concert guitar. This was not your average instrument, it was hand made by Martin Beck, engraved with the logo and had disabled kids carved in abalone on the neck. Not only was it gorgeous, it was to be signed by ALL of the artists in attendance. My parents met Martin Beck that evening and learned that they were the first Bridge School family to win a guitar, I’d like to think some things happen for a reason, if anyone deserves something special it’s them. Although no one in our family plays guitar, they’ve let many friends play it and will continue to share it along with the Bridge School with the world.

We all laughed and reminisced on our favorite songs as we bussed back to the city. It’s with great surprise I’ll say that the “Adults” out lasted the “Big Kids”, as my friends were dozing off past midnight my own mother was dancing like a giddy kid, telling us how long she had been wanting to see Neil Young live.  Winning the signed guitar was the icing on the cake. She emailed me later to say “We are back home and still reveling in the excitement of the weekend! I am trying to be patient waiting for my hand made Martin Beck guitar to arrive. I can’t wait to actually see it.” The memories will live on through the guitar, music, photos and I’d like to think we’ll make it happen again next year.

[Reflection from a few month's back, the concert was this fall in Mountain View, CA]

“Last weekend is what life is all about…great people, family, food and fun…so happy and proud to call all of you family…at the end of the day that’s all that matters.

“It is Wednesday and I am still floating around with my heart in the clouds. Thank-you all for joining us this weekend. Sharing the experience and the music with my friends and family is all I could ask for.”

“Thanks, Sam for the inspiration!  Can’t wait for the next…”

“DITTO on the thoughts and our sentiments precisely!!! It was an off the charts weekend with way too much damn fun, food, and friends. Words cannot describe it, I too am still flying high.”

 ”Somehow all thought of selling the guitar slipped away when I heard about Neil and Pegi signing my guitar!” 

 

The opposite of play is not work, it’s depression.

In fact play improves our work.

- Steven Keil

I watch TED Talks almost weekly for inspiration, but when I came across Steven Keil’s manifesto for play I was especially moved. It’s not brilliant, or a discovery of something we don’t already know, but the way he presents the need for play in culture is fascinating to me. It may be that I relate dearly to the subject matter or that it validates the way I live. I watched it twice and decided to share a few key points.

Keil believes that “The opposite of play is not work, it’s depression. In fact play improves our work” and thus he calls for a players revolution, for a drastic change in the way people think and behave. Although he addresses the “serious meme” that has infected his home of Bulgaria — and calls for a return to play to revitalize the economy, education and society, his sparkling talk has a universal message for people everywhere who are reinventing their workplaces, schools, lives.

What he finds in Bulgaria is that people are not living up to there potential. That society lacks innovation; they have poor heath, and have been dubbed the saddest place on earth. They also have few entrepreneurs, the assumed engine of the economy. He calls the operating system broken and believes they are last because they don’t value play. In fact, they de-value it by trying to be overly serious.

Some limiting factors:

Untrusting.

Controlling.

Restrictive.

Not valued.

Not having any FUN.

 

Fear is the enemy of play. The concept that needs to be broken in Bulgaria and everywhere is that the opposite of play is work. Where we feel guilty if you’re playing at work or doing something that can be perceived as fun. That thinking is backwards, because play improves our work. It stimulates creativity, increases productivity and improves our ability to learn. So much of our lives are spent at the workplace, it should be fun. Play doesn’t mean not serious, instead it promotes self-fulfillment, innovation, and creates meaning.

Playing is not just meant for kids and recess. We are all designed by nature to play from youth to old age. Keil declares, “Our brains are hard wired for play. Evolution has selected over millions and billions of years for play in humans and in animals. Evolution does a really good job of deselecting traits that aren’t advantageous for us and selecting traits that are competitive advantage. Nature isn’t stupid.” It’s proven that the more you play the bigger the brain size.  They found that rat’s that play more have bigger brains. And bears that play more live longer.

The benefits of play are emotional maturity and decision-making ability. Play creates a synergy of ideas that maybe you wouldn’t have occurred before. Playing can be very social and it shows other sides of your personality. The people I play with or engage in exercise, the arts, laughter, etc. are the people I am closest too, I understand the most and am challenged by. I believe in Kiels closing statement, that we need a drastic change in the way we think and behave but we don’t need a workers revolution. What we need is a players uprising. Reinvigorating our lives, schools and work.  Who cares what time you get in or leave work, the focus should be on providing results. I couldn’t tell you how much time I spent on the mountain or in the water when I am trying to get better at surfing, I can only tell you when I succeed and when the hard work comes to fruition. I believed that we should all rediscover play, innovation, and trust; allowing people to be thought leaders. Empowerment and constructive criticism goes a long way.

TEDx TALK: Steve Keil – A manifesto for play, for Bulgaria and beyond

No biases, but we all know San Francisco is one of the greatest cities in the country, AND as fellow members of the community, entrepreneurs, students and business professionals, it’s important to invest in the future of our beautiful city. Which is why you are invited to meet San Francisco’s mayoral candidate – Joanna Rees.

Joanna is a progressive independent, not part of the City Hall crowd, who intends to put jobs and schools at the top of her agenda.

What better way to meet your next mayor than with a margarita in hand?

Please join me on May 9th in the upper lounge at ROE SF from 7-9 PM for chips, salsa, margaritas and conversation about politics, bike lanes, parking tickets, taxes, education, jobs, buildings, bridges, crime, and whatever other topic you want to discuss. It’s an open forum and a great opportunity to learn more about Joanna’s goals and understand your voting options. An important factor to consider is that our mayor is selected by rank choice voting, which requires you to vote for three candidates.

May 9th also happens to be my birthday and I thought what better way to spend it than gather friends for a worthy cause. Please stop by and say hello, share a few tequila’s, and make it a fun evening. I do not want any gifts, but if you are so inclined I encourage you to make a donation to Joanna’s campaign.

 

 

Let’s face it, women rock (ok, so I’m slightly biased). But March 8th is a day for us to celebrate the amazing accomplishments of women around the world for the 100th anniversary of International Women’s Day.

A year ago, I knew very little about this holiday or that organizations around the world celebrate it in very unique, inspiring ways that truly do help change the world. Luckily this was a key topic of conversation during Vivanista’s ‘What Girls Can Teach Women’ panel at UN Week in New York this fall. The all female power panel, included Kimberly Perry, Director of Girl Up at the time, Zainab Salbi, Founder of Women for Women International, Nancy Lublin, CEO of DoSomething, Nancy Zhang, International Trustee of Key Club International, and Layne Gray, CEO of Vivanista. Each panelist expressed the need to create a movement, inspire women and ‘Do Something!’ in celebration of the 100th Anniversary. These women not only talk the talk, they truly walk the walk and get thousands to follow in their footsteps.

One of the most profound examples is the ‘Join me on the Bridge’ movement started by Women for Women, encouraging women from different communities to come together on a bridge and stand up for peace and in an effort to end violence against women. Started in Rwanda and the Democratic Republic of Congo, two countries that have seen some of the most devastating impacts of war in recent years and where atrocities such as rape, torture and violence against women are commonplace, this event has grown to a point where over 20,000 women participated on over 100 bridges across 4 continents in 2010.

It’s difficult not to be moved by these actions and inspired to help make an even greater impact in local communities everywhere. I’ve been working with CARE one of Vivanista’s nonprofit partner’s, to develop a fun and unique way in which women can come together with friends and family to celebrate this holiday, all while supporting women’s causes. What we came up with, is both tempting and tasty, we’ve partnered with Sprinkles Cucakes to encourage people and organization’s to host Cupcake Parties For A Purpose, through Meetup Everywhere to raise awareness and funds for CARE. We provide a downloadable toolkit containing party ideas ranging from Wine & Cupcake pairings to Cupcake Wars to Cupcake Shake, Bake N’ Take, a social media guide, International Women’s day trivia, Sprinkles Cupcakes signature recipes and ways to create a custom digital CARE package through the new CARE Package website.

 

This is just but one of the way’s you can celebrate. Throughout the month of March, hundreds of events are being held to honor and acknowledge the economic, political and social achievements of women. It’s a time to raise awareness of the challenges women and girls continue to face, discuss solutions, raise money and support future generations of leaders. The day’s etiquette, like most holidays, is understandably vague; there is no universal way to celebrate, color to wear, action to take, organization to support or guideline to follow. Which leave’s a great deal of creative freedom!

A few things you can do (I will be doing them all):

1. First and foremost, Thank women who inspire you!

Mothers, coaches, friends, teachers, siblings, leaders and those you may not know dearly, but have touched you or made an impact in your life.

2. Join Women for Women on a bridge around the world

Show how one woman can change anything and many women can change everything. By joining together on the world’s bridges, you can validate this statement – “stronger women build bridges of peace.”

3. Host a Party For A Purpose during the month of March

Have a sweet time with friends while raising awareness for a good cause. It’s not your ordinary birthday bash, but you should come together and celebrate. Throw a party, enjoy cupcakes, light candles and make a wish for future generations of women!

Keep up with the latest happenings through the following Twitter hashtag’s #IWD11. #IWD #Party4IWD, #CelebrateIWD #WomensDay

[Photo from 106 Cupcakery]


Do you love philanthropy? I do.

Which is why I want to invite you to join Vivanista in a collaborative photography project to share the ‘Love of Philanthropy’ with communities across the country on Valentine’s Day, February 14. Together we’ll create a photomontage of what you love about doing good.

Since so many Americans are passionate about giving back, we decided this would be a way to let volunteers, organizations and philanthropists tell their own stories, unfiltered with digital photographs of the people, places and things that are making a difference in their community. Our photo contest brings a new opportunity for Vivanista to see the world through your unique lens.

Challenge: Go out and create a visual love story. Share extraordinary images of everyday philanthropic life. All it takes is a vision, digital camera, and five minutes time.

How it works?

  • Photographers of all ages and experience can express their love of philanthropy through photos
  • Crowd sourced voting on Facebook to determine three category winners from 75 finalists
  • The grand prize winner, photo with the most votes will get $1,000 to be donated to their favorite charity

What makes a photograph a Vivanista winner? Technical quality, clarity and composition are all important, but so too is a flair for the unexpected and the ability to capture a picture-perfect moment. Need some ideas? check out all the contest submissions.

Enter Now: Share the Love of Philanthropy Photo Contest >>

Submissions are accepted through February 7, 2011 at 12pm PST.

Public voting will conclude February 14, 2011 at 12 noon PST.

Just before the New Year I had the opportunity to meet with JD Lasica, one of the creative minds behind SocialBrite, an affiliation of passionate social media strategists who believe in collaborating to produce positive change. He wrote a fabulous feature story on Vivanista, calling us “One of the terrific new resources for those learning how to host philanthropic fundraisers is Vivanista, a very cool San Francisco startup that offers a wealth of resources around charitable events.”

If you want to learn a little more about what we do at Vivanista and plans for 2011, I encourage you to check it out here or watch the 11-minute interview below:

Vivanista: Living well and doing good from JD Lasica on Vimeo.

What can girls teach women? That was the catalyst for the conversation in Vivanista’s panel during UN Week. On Wednesday September 22, 2010  in New York City Vivanista brought together a lively group of powerful women at the Mashable/UN Foundation Digital Media Lounge in New York City to discuss how young women in developed countries can have a major impact on improving the lives of girls in developing countries.

Panel participants include (from left to right): Kimberly Perry, Director of Girl Up, Zainab Salbi, Founder of Women for Women International, Nancy Lublin, CEO of DoSomething, Nancy Zhang, International Trustee of Key Club, and Layne Gray, CEO of Vivanista. Each member of the panel bring a wealth of experience and inspiration to both young girls and women.

Layne Gray led the panel in a discussion to draw their insights and experiences. She explains. “As philanthropic women, we want to share our message and values with girls.”, by quoting Nelson Mandela in saying “Sometimes it falls upon a generation to be great. You can be that great generation.” Layne asked the youngest member of the panel Nancy Zhang, to tell everyone what she thought it would take for America’s youth to be ‘That Great Generation”. Read more about the panel discussion at Vivanista or watch highlights below:

Today, August 19th is World Humanitarian Day, started by the United Nations Office of the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs (OCHA), in 2008. In conjunction with OCHA’s Humanitarian Day, CARE launched a Twitter challenge.

Challenge: Watch video & write down a word that describes you on blank paper. Snap a photo & post below, on Twitter or Facebook!




Our team at Vivanista took the opportunity to share a few words that describe us!

You can see all our individuals pics here>>


Social Impact, Social Good, Social Media, these were all popular topics of conversation at both the Care National Conference and Summit Series in Washington D.C. last week. The exponential growth of ways to socialize and share information with people in your community, at an event, or across the world allow our society to be more connected, informed and powerful. Through forms of FREE media such as Twitter, Facebook and YouTube you can extend a conversation, start a movement, raise funds, take a stance and even start a fight.

Many people scoff at these tools, or merely do not take the time to fully understand their potential. Unlike traditional forms of media, these tools allow people to decide what is ‘Popular’; trending topics rise above the noise and can reach far greater viewers in short periods of time. In the Women’s Leadership forum at Summit Series it was mentioned that ‘the influence on an individual is exponential’ and that if these tools are used appropriately one person can be extremely impactful. For example leaders, legislators, nonprofits, individuals and organizations are leveraging social media to create social good.

In a panel on ‘Doing Good in Tough TimesMalaak Compton-Rock talks about how texts were used to raise funds during the Haiti crisis:

With Twitter, you can follow people and topics and virally spread the word about a great cause. The hashtag (“#”) is a way to catalog and connect tweets about a specific topic, hashtags allow you to keep all tweets about that topic in a single stream. A hashtag is essentially a topic with a hash symbol (“#”) at the start to identify it, like #CARENCC or #SummitSeries. They are used to coordinate updates during emergencies, campaigns, events and fundraisers. One of the easiest ways to track a hashtags is by using Twitter Search.

During both the Care National Conference and the Summit Series we were able to follow the conversation, capture quotes and follow articles and links that were shared throughout the event. Below we have gathered some of the top tweets we came across while in Washington DC at #CARENCC and #SummitSeries. Check out the Top 25 Tweets and Tweeters on Vivanista.com >>

(Originally posted at Vivanista.com, the go-to community for philanthropic living and giving, where you can find philanthropy and fundraising resources and information.)

On May 11, 2010 leading humanitarian organization CARE gathered some of the most influential women from around the world to urge lawmakers to improve the lives of women and girls globally.

The conference agenda focused on three key issues:

1. Fighting global hunger with a global food security initiative

2. Protecting and empowering girls by preventing child marriage

3. Mothers matter: Protecting mothers and children from senseless deaths.

U.S. Secretary of State Hilary Rodham Clinton joined actress and humanitarian Maria Bello, CARE advocate for Maternal Health Christy Turlington Burns, the first Ladies of Mozambique and Sierra Leone, humanitarian and author Malaak Compton Rock and nearly 1,000 other attendees to share knowledge and demand a world without poverty or oppression.

Secretary Clinton captivated the audience in an inspiring and powerful keynote address in which she presented solutions to CARE’s key issues, explained why ‘Caring is not enough’ and committed to getting results not measured in dollars but in lasting changes in people’s lives. The Secretary was one of the most highly anticipated and outstanding presenters of the day.

“She sets an ideal standard for all of us to follow as women”

Gayle M. Anderson, Nevada commission of economic development.

But Secretary Clinton was not the only leader in attendance, the Ronald Regan Building and International Trade Center was buzzing with influential women, politicians, entrepreneurs, philanthropists, community leaders and activists as young as 8 years old.

Below we have highlighted five of the leading ladies of CARE, with quotes they shared at the event as to why they are so passionate about CARE and women’s leadership.

Hilary Clinton, U.S. Secretary of State

“Focus on women if you want lasting, measurable results.”

Secretary Clinton could have easily been a member of the CARE team as she endorsed their mission and advocated for CARE’s initiatives. “The women and men whom I’ve met who against the most daunting odds, have made a difference for their families and their communities and just didn’t know the meaning of the word impossible. Well, CARE has been on the front lines of that struggle for such a long time. And I so admire the work of this organization, its global mission, its can-do spirit, its fearlessness in the face of insurmountable odds.”

Helene Gayle, President and CEO of CARE USA

“When love and empathy intertwine with skills, one can conquer the world.”

Helene has dedicated her career to making sure that the building blocks of healthy, secure lives are available not only just to citizens of wealthy nations, but to people everywhere. As a doctor and a public health expert, she has significantly advanced the global fight against AIDS, she’s championed the critical issue of health, particularly women’s health, and she’s made CARE – a great organization – even greater. Helen Gayle believes in the mission of Care so much that she even turned down the opportunity to join Secretary Clinton’s initiative. No one better to describe Helene Gayle than Secretary Clinton herself “In fact, when I became Secretary of State, one of the very first people I reached out to was Helene. And I said, “Helene, do you have any interest in joining the Administration?” And she said, “Well, of course, I’m very excited about what can be done, but I care about CARE and I’m committed to CARE.”

Helene Gayle with Annie Vranizan

Malaak Compton Rock, Humanitarian and Author

“If it takes a village, build one”

In a conversation about ‘Doing Good in Tough Times’ Malaak Compton Rock asks attendees not to be shy, to take that first step and act. In order to create a global economy she believes we have to give what we can, and it does not necessarily have to be a monetary donation. Instead she suggests that you can lend your services to charity. If you’re a designer, florist, photography someone can benefit from these skills. In reference to leveling the playing field Mrs. Rock says “I can’t donate what Oprah donates, and Oprah can’t donate like Bill Gates, but we all have to donate and adjust to give proportionately to what we make.”

Madam Maria Da Luz Guebuza, First Lady of the Republic of Mozambique

“The lack of skilled health care practitioners can be the difference between life and death.”

Madam Maria spoke discussed the importance of ‘catalyzing a movement’ for providing health care and nutrition for mothers and children. She believes that “nutrition is the cornerstone of survival and general development of a nation.” It starts with pregnant mothers and the ability to provide for a healthy baby. If they are unable to do so, it can be a viscous cycle, which is why she is so passionate about the things that CARE, is doing to support the global community.

The Honorable Carolyn Maloney, U.S. House of Representatives

“The biggest way to make change is have a plan – Pass a bill! Start with something achievable, then go for something impossible.”

Representative Maloney plans is working to get a National Womens History Museum across from the National mall in Washington D.C. and she believes this is achievable by the end of 2010. She is also outraged that the U.S. has not joined The Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW) and is lobbying to make this happen. Read more about CEDAW.

On behalf of Vivanista I am also proud to announce our first Cause of the Month – CARE. CARE empowers women as part of their efforts to fight poverty and combat widespread maternal mortality across the globe. Learn how we are empowering women with Care >>